Seeing Double?
March 24, 2006
According to Debra Lafave (woman who sexually molested a boy and had charges dropped in her second case) there are no double standards with men and women in this kind of situation. I would have to say she really is nuts, because if it was a man, he would be in jail for 5yrs to life. However it is not just in this case that I have noticed it. It is in everyday life. Let me give some examples:
Cheating
- if a guy is caught cheating on his girlfriend, he is an ass, a worthless p.o.s, he should be thrown to the streets and will forever have to feel the wrath of the world.
- Make a girl doing this and you hears, well the guy is dating deserves it. He was prob treating her bad and she needed to go find something better or experience better.
Not a soul to wonder what if she really is a slut or just a terrible person. I am not saying that the guy was right in the situation, however how is it so easy to let the female be the victim? Seriously, the likely hood of a woman cheating is a lot higher then a guy. For one reason, girls get away with everything. Put on the tears, act like the victim and bam! Your free.
Multiple Sex Partners
Well this is a hot topic. Many still believe if a guy sleeps with a lot of girls that he is somehow "the man". At the same time if it was a woman, she would be looked at as a "slut". I would have to say that this has slowly become more equal. I see more and more guys not admiring guys who love to sleep around and well same for the women as well. In today's age of "hey what disease you have this week?" who wants someone who slept with a whole town?
Off this whole Male Vs Female Topic.... I have a double standard for the Gym
Gym Rat
I was joking with someone at the gym the other day. During the time they say, "man your a gym rat aren't you, I see you here all the time." So, to clarify the situation, I ask, "so are you saying your a gym rat?" looking confused they say,"no I was saying you are, because I always see you here."
After staring at them for a few seconds, I go, "if you are calling me a gym rat for always being here, because YOU always see me here, would that not mean you are a "gym rat"(insert quote things with hands) as well?" They go, "no, because all I do is cardio and get out here"... Shook my head, walking away saying "you really are an idiot aren't you?"
So, even though this was my cardio week, and yes usually I could be seen with the weights in hand that makes me a gym rat because I'm in the gym working out. However, this guy, comes in, just does his workout (cardio) but does not pick up weights does not make him one.... Interesting
posted by Total Core Fitness Bootcamp @ 3/24/2006 07:46:00 AM,
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